Why are you all up in my biznass?

I get the Coquette, hot/cold, push/pull, catch/ release move. Really I do. In fact I am an actual offender of this horrible dating tactic. But ya know what? I want it to disappear. It's most certainly no fun when you are the one being pushed and pulled, it has temporary effectiveness, but the underlying consequence is that I get annoyed , and skeptical.

CT college boy does a FCP (Full Court Press) texting blitzkreig followed by a disappearing act, then its FCP again. Definite check in the "Neg" column. Mr. Peter Pan was a serial offender. Its as if he texted/ emailed whenever he felt like it, without regard for anyone's agenda but his own (...possibly a result of his only child shortcomings).

In the short term, I may give credence to these horrible communication outreaches by responding, but in the long run, i don't trust that these boys will stick around. And you can't build a house of love without a foundation of trust.

Mini rant: Boys - are you so whimsical and inspired by the moment that you text however you fancy? Get a hold of yourself! Man up!! Go big or go home, and by "go home", i mean, delete my contact information.

P dot S - Guide to Menhattan, a DYFU fave, echoes my sentiments in totality.